Control My Anger

I had often been dubbed as 'angry young man' [of course sarcastically] in college. I never took it seriously. However, after five years of graduation, I sometime feel, I had these fits of anger. Somehow, after I read these books about Emotional Intelligence and all, I am not able to control my own anger. The rage is so huge in degree that all the learnings at that point is easyily forgotten.

Anyway, will try to control my anger in future. Be it in my personal life or proffessional life. :(

However, there was one major learning today. NEVER TRY TO MAKE ANYONE UNDERSTAND OF WHICH HE/SHE IS NOT CAPABLE TO UNDERSTAND. Use the vocabulary, which others understand. The key to interaction, the successfuly interaction is that you have analysed the context in which others live. Now after you UNDERSTAND that context, use the paticular vocabulary which suits that context. Saying RIGHT WORDS AT RIGHT TIME TO RIGHT PERSON will give desired result. Anyone being WRONG...and you are screwed!!!

In the end, Aristotle sums it up the Anger philosophy - ' Anybody can become angry, that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way, that is not within everybody's power, that is not easy.'